How to communicate for closeness, not conflict

Listening to another requires not just our ears to be open, but our hearts to be open. So much tension in relationships comes from communication which causes conflict rather […]
Sexuality Starts With You

Feeling sexy, powerful, attractive, radiant & confident starts from the inside. It is the energy we hold that makes us most attractive, when it is emanating from our core. How […]
How to Stop Being Put in The Friend Zone

Do you find yourself often being put in the ‘friend zone,’ when often you actually want more? Being put in the friend zone by someone you’re interested in can be […]
The Path to Keeping Your Heart Open, Even When It’s Hard

The path of the heart can be full of the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. When our heart is fulfilled and happy, we can be in a […]
Enticing A Woman’s Desire

Whilst enticing a man’s desire is most easily done through sensuality, enticing a woman’s desire is most easily done though romance and opening her heart. When most guys want to […]
Attuning to the Feminine & Masculine Energies in Tantric Lovemaking

There came a time in my tantric journey when I realised how important masculine and feminine polarity is in order to maintain sexual chemistry and attraction. My conditioned perception of […]
PAIN AND SPIRITUALITY

I remember when I was in the trying stage of my spiritual journey. Trying to get rid of my pain. Trying to get more pleasure. Trying to be some ideal […]
Relationships Are A Master Teacher

Good-bye dwelling in the perfection of absolute inner union and meeting all my own needs. Good-bye extreme independence, self-reliance and infinite self-love or infinite anything that denies my valid longing […]
Releasing the Need to Grasp Onto or Avoid in Relationships – Part 1

We are wired for attachment – that’s why babies cry when separated from their mothers. We develop a style of attaching that affects our behaviour in close relationships, depending especially […]
How to overcome neediness, grasping and withdrawal in relationships

We’re wired for attachment – that’s why babies cry when separated from their mothers. Depending especially upon our mother’s behaviour, as well as later experiences, we develop a style of […]